Tweeting, email, Facebook, text
messaging, blogs, MySpace and instant messaging … with so many
ways to communicate, one would assume that Americans are an
intellectual, linguistic group with a plethora of important
things to say all the time.
We’re not.
How it happened is unknown, call it
ego, maybe a burning desire to feel important or trendy. Perhaps
some people just want to feel as if they are a part of
something.
Whatever the reason, somewhere
along the way, many bloggers, texters, tweeters and obsessive
cell-phoners have gotten the idea that everything they do or say
is extremely important.
It isn’t.
Worse yet, they also believe
everything they do and say is something people really, truly
want to know about.
It’s not.
Sure there are times when a text
message would come in handy, say if you are hiding in a closet
from a burglar and trying to text the police. But why punch out
a short message about what you are doing at the moment (sitting
at a traffic light at Third and William)? Is it that important?
Just because there is a wide array
of communication devices today, doesn’t mean each person has to
use them constantly or share their personal life with the world.
In the past few months, national
news has reported a bus driver who crashed his bus while texting
and my favorite, a young woman in New York City who fell down an
exposed cellar access in the sidewalk because she was not paying
attention to where she was walking while sending a text message.
My question is, what did these
folks do before texting, blogging and everything else came
along?
Was their life less important then
or did they write letters, send message via carrier pigeon, rent
billboards, send smoke signals?
I would assume they kept their
personal life pretty much to themselves and if there was really
important news to be told, they phoned a friend or actually
spoke with the person … in person.
Don’t get me wrong, technology and
all its glory are great … I have two cell phones, the latest in
technology, four laptops and send emails all day long. But,
there is a time and place for everything and not everything
needs to be told.
It’s almost become a cliché, the
folks who enter a store, shop, check out and leave said store
and never once stop talking on their cell phone or text
messaging. I’m sorry, but that is just rude, especially to the
store clerks, cashiers and wait staff.
If you’ve ever been forced to
listen to these mindless drivel … it is nothing urgent that
needs to said at that precise moment. And some folks are so
clueless, by the time they are finished with their call, the
entire store knows about their medical history, overdue bills, a
rash that won’t go away and what they had for breakfast. (Many
times, cold cereal and milk.)
Sure I have taken and made calls
while I am out, but I keep it short, quite, and limited to
situations that are urgent. A few seconds tops. I don’t share my
personal life, however dull or exciting it might be.
Current statistics show that there
are 270 million cell phones in the nation. On average, adult
cell phone subscribers each sent, 407 text messages a month,
while teenagers send a staggering 2,000 message per month.
Since a text message needs to be
under 160 characters, the popularity of texting has also created
its own form of language, with more than 1,000 different forms
of abbreviations, such as LOL, CULTR, ?, OMG.
It’s like a secret code taken from
Dick Tracey’s codebook.
What type of an impact does this
have on today’s verbal communication? How does the increase in
texting, blogging and other technology-based forms of
communications impact on the way Americans — especially younger
people — write.
For some people, trying to fill out
a form or something as important as a resume, becomes a
challenge since they are so accustomed to typing what they
speak.
Maybe it’s time to start having
face-to-face conversations, instead of staring at some
characters on a screen.
It might be time to give the phone
a rest, un-blog the blog and leave the tweeting for the birds —
especially if you are in school or driving a car.